25 of the Best Stress-Relief Techniques
If you need to de-stress ASAP, we've compiled the best techniques you can incorporate into your everyday routine. Some only take a few minutes to start feeling calm.
Americans are feeling increasingly stressed out, according to the Gallup 2019 Global Emotions Report 12. The annual survey found that 55 percent of U.S. residents felt stressed during much of the day in 2018 — making it the fourth most-stressed country.
So, what's causing the stress? The biggest culprit, by far, tends to be financial difficulties, but jobs are also to blame.
And there's more unsettling news: Stress can negatively affect both your body and mind, causing symptoms ranging from headaches to sleep problems 13. And, according to the Mayo Clinic, unchecked stress can lead to such serious conditions as obesity, diabetes and heart disease 13.
If you're in dire need of some stress relief, these are some of the best tension-relieving techniques you can incorporate into your daily routine.
1. Treat Yo' Self
Rough day at the office? Take some time out for yourself. Schedule a massage, take a long bath or relax in the sauna. According to a May 2011 study in Supportive Care in Cancer, cancer patients who participated in regular massage therapy sessions experienced lower stress levels than those who didn't 14.
The sauna is also a great way to relax and unwind. Aside from the peace and quiet you can find during “you time,” the Journal of the American Medical Association reported in April 2015 that frequent sauna use was associated with a lower risk of cardiovascular disease-related mortality.
3. Engage in PDA
Reach out and kiss someone! In a 2008 study of 2,000 couples at Northwestern University’s Feinberg School of Medicine, researchers determined that those who kissed spontaneously and often were eight times less likely to experience chronic stress and depression.
Even the simple act of saying “I love you” or expressing affection can lower your levels of stress hormones like cortisol and DHEA-S, according to a 2008 Arizona State University study published in Communication Monographs. The finding proved researcher Kory Floyd’s “affection exchange theory,” which posits that affectionate behavior has made significant contributions to human viability and fertility throughout evolution.
4. Try Aromatherapy
Stressed 3? Stop and smell the rose oil 4. “Using essential oils in your environment can actually affect the entire body, [improving] mood and reducing stress,” says natural health expert Kathy Gruver.
The reason? Aromatherapy interacts with the brain’s limbic system and hypothalamus, encouraging the release of stress-fighting serotonin, according to a 2012 study published in Oxford Academic — though some experts think it may simply be an emotional placebo.
Along with rose oil, lavender and chamomile are also effective agents for releasing stress. Depending on the type of oil, you’ll find many options for incorporating your preferred scent into daily life — from drinking teas to using diffusers to wearing them as perfume or in jewelry.
5. Stop and Smell the Flowers
Skip the oils and go straight for the real thing! The lavender flower is renowned for its calming effect on the mind and body. “It can calm you down, aid your sleep, reduce anxiety and uplift your mood," says Katie Kyleen Sabbaghian, a spiritual psychologist in Scottsdale, Az.
According to a 2018 study conducted by the University of North Florida, being around flowers significantly reduces daily stress. Researchers discovered that one in four women who participated in the study experienced a noticeable boost in mood, energy and compassion by having an element of nature, like flowers, incorporated into their surroundings.
6. Adopt a Four-Legged Friend
Pets are more than great companions, they can also be key agents in helping to soothe your stress. Interacting with these furry friends can spur a boost of oxytocin (a "happiness hormone") in your brain, according to a November 2017 study published in Scientific Reports.
Another 2002 study, published in Psychosomatic Medicine, followed 240 married couples and found that those with pets had significantly lower heart rate and blood pressure levels than those without a furry friend. The conclusion? Because people perceive pets as a supportive presence in their lives, the end result has significant cardiovascular and stress-reducing benefits. Man’s best friend indeed.
7. Connect With Friends and Family
Loneliness is bad for your health. A 2011 study from the University of California, Los Angeles revealed that social isolation and loneliness can cause the immune system to change, resulting in higher blood pressure, increased levels of the stress hormone cortisol and disruptive sleep patterns.
So get through your tough days with a little help from your friends. Whether that's grabbing a quick cup of coffee with a friends, chatting with a coworker or joining a church or social organization, surrounding yourself with people — especially positive ones — can boost your emotional wellbeing.
A 2011 study published in the Indian Journal of Psychological Medicine found that college students dealt with academic stressors better when they had a group of classmates or friends they could rely on.
8. Talk to Yourself
BodyTalk is a holistic therapy system which uses psychology to help promote physical health. “When under stress, talk to your body,” says Sabbaghian. “The cells are very connected to your mental and emotional well being. That's why we get nauseous when we are nervous, get a gut feeling when you don't trust someone or shed tears when we are sad."
Sabbaghian recommends simply sitting for a few minutes in silence, thanking your body for doing the best it can. "This activity of speaking to your body's intelligence with gratitude can be extremely grounding," she says.
9. Get Organized
Channel your inner Marie Kondo for some spring cleaning. Women who described their homes as cluttered or full of unfinished projects had higher levels of stress than those who described their homes as restorative and restful, according to a 2010 study published in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin.
So if your desk is piled high with half-finished projects, your home is overrun with dirty laundry or your to-do list is never-ending, take some time and prioritize getting organized. Not everything needs to be perfect, but having a more organized home or work space will help you stay calm and focused.
10. Tap Into Your Inner Artist
According to a 2016 study conducted at Drexel University, creative activity significantly lessens stress in the body, regardless of artistic experience or talent. Out of 39 adults, 75 percent of the participants displayed lower levels of cortisol after crafting with markers, paper, clay and collage materials for 45 minutes without any instruction.
“Journaling, painting, singing and sculpting can be some ways of stepping out of your mind and into the present moment,” says Sabbaghian. “It takes you out of the left side of your brain which creates stress and into the right side of your brain.”
11. Keep a Journal
Ever heard of the HALT (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired) model? It’s used to illustrate the poor reaction to stress that can result when your basic needs aren’t being met — and that’s exactly where therapist and counseling educator Diane Lang’s Journal of Truth exercise comes in. For one week, her clients keep a record of how much water they drank, what they ate and when and how much sleep and exercise they got.
“At the end of the week, it shows why you’re stressed and unbalanced — whether it’s having large gaps between meals and causing your blood sugar to drop or too much caffeine or sugar,” she says. “Keeping this journal shows which basic needs are being met and what changes you need to make.”
Additionally, writing in a journal, even for just a few minutes, can be very therapeutic and allow you some time to step back from a stressful situation and reflect on why you're feeling so stressed. It's not always possible in the moment, so if you can't break away from a tense conversation, write about it afterwards and reflect on how you can handle similar situations in the future.
12. Take a Power Nap
Too busy for a nap? You may want to reconsider. Even a 20-minute power nap can work wonders. A brief nap doesn't make up for bad sleep but can help improve mood and cognitive performance compared with those who don’t nap at all, according to the National Sleep Foundation 10.
“People are actually getting the same benefit from a nap as a night of sleep,” says Sara Mednick, assistant professor in the Department of Psychology at the University of California, Riverside.
Surprisingly, shorter naps actually prove to be more effective than napping for 30 or 90 minutes — lengths of time that may cause grogginess. So go ahead and allow yourself to take that short siesta and consider wearing earplugs and/or an eye mask to truly unplug.
13. Tap Into Healing Energy
You may be unfamiliar with reiki, gateway healing and reflexology, but these alternative medicine modalities are becoming more mainstream. It may sound a bit out there, but according to certified energy therapist Kristin Borostyan, “when your energy is aligned, your body’s reaction to a stressful situation is significantly reduced.”
One of her go-to moves is dubbed the Hook Up. To do it, place one middle finger between your eyebrows and your other middle finger on your navel. Then gently press each finger inward and upward and hold for 15 to 30 seconds. “You might experience a sigh or a yawn,” she says. “This shows that your energies are hooked up properly.” If you try this and you don't sigh or yawn, it doesn't mean that the exercise was unsuccessful.
Read more: Ancient Wisdom to Help Relieve Modern Stress
14. Drink Matcha Tea
If you're desperate to find your Zen but also need to stay on your game to get everything done, a cup of organic matcha tea may be just what the stress doctor ordered. “Not only does matcha make you feel calm and alert at the same time, but it’s loaded with antioxidants,” says Elizabeth Trattner, integrative and traditional Chinese medicine expert.
This powdered green tea contains high levels of L-theanine, an amino acid proved to have both psychological and physiological anti-stress qualities, according to a January 2007 study published in Biological Psychology 1. A 2003 study published in the Journal of Chromatography also found that matcha has three times as much of a potent antioxidant known as EGCG — or epigallocatechin gallate — compared to other types of green tea 2.
Consume matcha hot, cold or even latte-style with coconut milk, Trattner suggests. “Make sure to buy a bamboo whisk called a chasen to prepare it correctly.”
15. Take Time to Exercise
Get up and get moving to beat your stress. According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, regular exercise helps the brain handle stress by releasing neurochemicals to help the body respond more appropriately.
There is some evidence to suggest that the release of norepinephrine is responsible for the brain's efficient handling of stress. But other researchers have a much simpler explanation.
“Biologically, exercise seems to give the body a chance to practice dealing with stress,” says Rod K. Dishman of the University of Georgia. “It forces the body's physiological systems — all of which are involved in the stress response — to communicate much more closely than usual.” So the more you exercise, the better your body becomes at communicating about and dealing with stress responses.
16. Adjust Your Smartphone Notifications
Between social media, texts and apps, it’s no wonder that smartphones have the potential to stress us out — after all, wielding a smartphone can feel like a full-time job by itself. A study presented at the 2012 British Psychological Society’s Division of Occupational Psychology Conference found that the amount of times you check your phone each day directly relates to the stress you feel.
However, that doesn't mean you have to go and abandon your phone completely. In fact, playing games or using meditation apps after work has been shown to relieve stress, according to a small August 2019 study published in JMIR Mental Health. While researchers found that gaming apps may be more helpful than mindfulness applications, both have been shown to help bust stress.
Read more: 9 Troubling Social-Media Side Effects
17. Remember to Breathe
People have the terrible tendency of holding their breath when they're stressed. But this only compounds the problem. Instead, try practicing deep, diaphragmatic breathing. Slow, controlled breathing can lead to decreased levels of cortisol (a stress hormone) in both men and women, according to a May 2010 study. Similar results were shown in a 2006 study published in Complementary Therapies in Medicine, which found that mental relaxation and slow breathing help lower blood pressure 8.
So when you feel stress start to creep up on you, take a few minutes and breathe deeply. There are a few techniques you can try: Breathe deeply in though your nose, hold and breathe out through your mouth; use a finger to block one nostril and breathe in through one side of your nose and out through the other; or place your hands on your belly and breathe in and out through your nose, paying special attention to how your rib cage expands laterally.
18. Don’t Be Your Own Worst Enemy
If your inner critic’s messages are deafening, it may be time to reduce them to a dull roar to save yourself the emotional wear and tear. “The way that we appraise ourselves and our corresponding self-talk impacts how we feel emotionally,” says clinical psychologist Christina O’Flaherty. “When we beat ourselves up for mistakes or shortcomings, we are more likely to feel more stressed in the face of a challenge.”
Instead, O’Flaherty advocates practicing self-compassion, a technique proved to boost happiness and optimism. “Think about times when a close friend is struggling with something and write down what you would say to her to make her feel better,” she adds. “Try treating yourself the way you would treat your friend.”
19. Eat a Healthy, Balanced Breakfast
Your food can directly impact how you handle stress and anxiety. Start your day off strategically with a complex carbohydrate like steel-cut oats. “Complex carbs cause the brain to release serotonin, a neurotransmitter which produces a calming effect on the body,” says internal medicine physician Saundra Dalton-Smith, M.D.
She adds that you can give your healthy oatmeal an extra boost of crunch and sweetness by adding raisins and sunflower seeds. “Both are rich in B vitamins, which help to reduce stress.”
Even the simple act of eating breakfast can help you de-stress. An October 2013 study published in Frontiers in Human Neuroscience that found an 89-percent anxiety reduction in those who make time for the morning ritual. But don't stop with breakfast, eating well throughout the day will keep your energy levels up, allowing you to handle stressful situations and make decisions with a clearer head.
20. Stand Up Straight
When you're stressed out, your spine is one of the first places to tense up. So it's only natural that strengthening your spine is essential for ongoing stress relief.
“Spine alignment can create a healthier nervous system which can affect the reduction of our stress levels,” says Sabbaghian. “Emotional stress also impacts those tight muscles in your neck and shoulders causing your spine to come out of alignment. Chiropractic, massage and cranial sacral work are all great solutions.”
21. Strike a (Yoga) Pose
As the yoga trainer for the Tampa Bay Lightning, Pittsburgh Pirates and Philadelphia Phillies, Dana Santas is accustomed to helping athletes in high-stress situations. Her solution? Strategic yoga poses and breathing techniques. Much of her philosophy mirrors that of a 2012 Harvard study that found holding an open, expansive posture increases testosterone and decreases cortisol levels.
One of her favorite techniques to teach is Mountain pose, in which you stand with your feet hip-distance apart, inhale and raise your arms overhead at shoulder width. Once in position, you should take 10 slow, deep breaths, emphasizing your exhalations and counting backward from 10 to one, says Santas. “The combination of being able to take deep breaths and hold an open posture is the perfect recipe for de-stressing,” she says.
22. Thump Your Thymus
When therapist Neca C. Smith trains corporate clients to reduce workplace stress, she suggests a technique known as thymus tapping. “When stress is present, the immune system shuts down,” she says. “Thymus tapping is an energy-medicine technique used to give the immune system a jolt of energy and relieve stress.”
To practice this, locate your thymus, which is at the top of your chest just below your collarbone, and use your fingers to tap for 20 seconds while slowly breathing in and out. Take it up a notch by tapping a waltz-style beat, a method recommended by holistic physician John Diamond.
23. Learn to Meditate
Meditation is a great way to quiet your mind. If you're a newbie, tuning out the noise from the outside world can be tough, but taking a few minutes each day to turn your focus inward can reap big rewards. “Guided meditation uses mental imagery and visualization to get into a place of relaxation,” says Sabbaghian.
“When you meditate, you clear away the information overload that builds up everyday and contributes to your stress.” You can find guided meditations through Deepak Chopra's website, YouTube or in an app like Calm. While smartphone games may be better for relaxation (according to the above-mentioned study), meditation apps are another great resource for non-gamers.
Read more: 8 Easy Mindful-Meditation Techniques
24. Listen to Music
If the right song can make you stop stressing and sing along, you’re not alone. A 2011 study published in the Journal of Advanced Nursing sought to examine the effects of music on those in high-stress professions.
It found that those who sat and listened to soothing music of their own selection for 30 minutes had lower perceived stress levels, heart rates and cortisol levels than those who sat quietly for the same length of time. And don’t be afraid to listen to sad songs, because they can actually improve your mood, according to a 2013 study by Japanese researchers published in the journal Frontiers in Psychology.
25. Use an Easy-to-Remember Acronym
When teaching stress management to first responders, police, firefighters and dispatchers, human resources trainer Steve Albrecht uses a simple acronym: BREADS. “It can aid in stress relief and help self-management,” he says.
According to Albrecht, it stands for:
- Breathing: keeping your breath slow and steady
- Relaxation: taking at least 10 minutes twice a day to shut your eyes and relax or meditate)
- Exercise: five days a week for at least 30 minutes
- Attitude: keeping it positive
- Diet: low in carbs, high in lean proteins and moderation in caffeine and alcohol
- Sleep: more and better-quality sleep, along with good pre-sleep rituals 8
Additional reporting by Jen Jones Donatelli
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