The Value of the Socialization of Children

By Jaime Vargas-Benitez
Kids who are socially active benefit in many areas of life.
Kids who are socially active benefit in many areas of life.

Socialization is an important aspect of a child's life. Children benefit from socializing in physical, emotional and mental capacities. Children who are socially active have high self-esteem and are well-adjusted mentally. Socialization also increases a child's empathy towards others, creating an understanding of other people's point of view. Some other benefits include an increase in academic performance and better physical health. Overall, children who are socially active have a high value of life, and the people to whom they are attached. These children have inner drive propelling them intellectually, physically and emotionally. The value of socialization can not be stressed enough.

Emotional Well-Being

Socializing plays an important role in peer relationships throughout kids' lives. Developing peer relationships early in life helps children stay well adjusted emotionally. According to Healthy Children, kids that are repeatedly rejected can isolate themselves and develop a negative internal dialogue. Healthy Children says parents should be aware of the consequences of the lack of socialization, which are potential anger problems, aggression issues and even impulsive behavior. Socializing is how children begin to develop healthy relationships, with themselves and their peers.

Academic Achievement

The child development organization Zero To Three highlights the connection of children's socialization to academic performance in their publication, "Relationships: The Heart of Development and Learning." Children that have healthy social skills are outgoing in the classroom. They will ask questions when they have a problem, and they raise their hands more frequently to participate in classroom discussion. These children stand out in the classroom, which translates to a better learning environment and increased learning for the child.

Developing Empathy

Empathy is the ability to understand and express other peoples' feelings. Childhood 101 says peer relationships are a vital way for children to develop empathy. Children who are able to understand other viewpoints are compassionate, accepting people. They are able to exhibit tolerance and openness to other cultures and backgrounds. Childhood 101 explains children with empathy are less likely to bully, or stand by and watch others be bullied. In today's world where bullying is prevalent, empathy is a key to solving the bullying epidemic.

Physical Benefits

The World Health Organization touts the benefits of socialization in regards to physical health. Children that participate in group activities, whether it is group sports or just neighborhood play time, benefit both socially and physically. The WHO says children who participate in approximately 60 minutes of aerobic activity three times a week have increased bone strength, lower incidence of diabetes and better overall health. These children also experience stronger social bonds, and learn concepts like good sportsmanship. Socializing children through physical activity builds children's bodies and minds.

About the Author

Jaime Vargas-Benitez has been a parenting writer since 2010. She has worked in the child wellness field in various roles for over 20 years. Along with the experiences of raising her own kids, she has been privileged enough to participate in the raising of hundreds of other children as well.